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“Why Mr. Right Can’t Find You is the book of hope. I followed its advice straight to a great new man I met, and now I’m happily married to him!” — Olivia D.
“This book makes you look at relationships from a completely different perspective. I approached someone through an avenue I had never thought of before (because Kearns helped me to see opportunities, and empowered me to do something about it) and we have been dating ever since. The difference about this relationship is that I didn’t approach it with a sense of deficiency. From this book... I realized that I am valuable and fabulous exactly the way I am. I don't need to be skinnier, heavier, taller, shorter, have larger hips or boobs, smaller hips or boobs, longer eyelashes or fuller lips. It empowered me. This is truly a new day and a new way for me!” — Lorraine L.
“Remarkably honest...the only genuinely open account I’ve ever seen, of what goes through a man’s mind when he interacts with a woman. As a man I can say...yes, that’s exactly how it is.” — August C. Bourré on techsploitation.com
“It was on Valentine's day (another lonely one I might add) and I came across a display of books and that's when Why Mr. Right Can't Find You caught my eye. I picked up two copies and decided it was going to be a Valentine's gift for one of my girlfriends and me. The next weekend this friend and I read parts of the book together while we were having a nice dinner. With all that great insight from the book my friend met someone pretty terrific, and as for myself I can truly say that if I hadn't opened my heart to all the different options of meeting someone I would never have met my new best friend two months later. I have never been so happy. Your suggestions of taking an assertive approach to creating a relationship really were so true.” — Tammy G.
“I was really impressed with the logical thought, the clarity and the easy, creative way J.M. Kearns has of leading the reader from one thought to another. It's not patronizing but it is infused with patience and insight. On top of that wisdom and perception, it's great fun to read. If only I had read this several relationships ago!” — Janet C.
As a man I can say...yes, that’s exactly how it is.”
— August C. Bourré on techsploitation.com
“This book doesn’t even deserve to be lumped in with all the other “Self Help” stuff: it’s better than that. I was shocked to find an intelligent discussion of something people almost never speak intelligently about – preferring instead to believe in some pie-in-the-sky fantasy at the exact moment they’re planning a life! I brought this book to my boyfriend when we’d only been going out a few weeks: we read it together, talked about it, went on a road trip to test it out, and basically used it as a roadmap to find true compatibility — at the same time we were falling in love. I highly recommend it for couples, not just singles, because it jump-starts those conversations and questions you need to figure out before you get all emotional and sappy. We now know things about each other we’d never thought to ask ourselves. Oddly enough, after you figure out you really can be best friends and great partners, all that dreamy love stuff is much deeper and more rewarding. Great book – and the little vignettes make it hilarious, too.” — Marguerite P.
“What J.M. Kearns had to say about compatibility rang true: it gave voice to a part of my own personal knowledge. It helped me make an important change and find a better relationship.” — Jeannie L.
“I’m an unattached woman of a certain age and I thought it was time for a new point of view. This book certainly gave me that! The biggest surprise was that it got me thinking about online dating. I had always assumed internet dating was a way for women to meet monsters, but J.M. Kearns made me think that it could actually be plausible, a possibility with the fear factor removed. I went online and did some reconnoitering on a major site, and ran across a man that I’ve seen at the bookstore. Interesting. I also looked at my competition, and I think I just may have the goods!” — Catharine J.
“I am recently divorced, and in order to move on, picked up your book from the bookstore's vast selection. Just to let you know that I am glad I did, firstly because it is so down to earth, and secondly because it restored my faith in men.” — Shauna W.
“This book does even more than it thinks it’s doing—it’s good for men too! After reading it I became very aware that you can’t just let ‘sightings’ pass you by. You have to be willing to take chances. JM Kearns helped me remember that men and women are on the same side—that someone was out there looking for me, and wanted me to find her. Since reading it, an amazing opportunity came my way, and I didn’t blow it. Now we are dating seriously.” — Vincent R.
“This book is innately refreshing because it’s honest; funny because it’s true. Finally a guy comes clean.” — Gary H.
